Pre-Wedding Ceremony Events
* Wedding Party Dressed and Ready
The wedding party should be dressed, ready and waiting in the appropriate locations at least 15 minutes prior to the start of the ceremony.
Any musical preludes or solos should take place at least 5 minutes prior to the start of the ceremony.
* ighting of the Candles
Sometimes the candles or candelabras are lit before the guests arrive. Other times the ushers light them as part of the prelude, or as part of the wedding ceremony.
The Wedding Ceremony
To gain a deeper understanding of your Christian wedding ceremony and to make your special day even more meaningful, you may want to spend some time learning the biblical significance of today’s Christian wedding traditions.
* Seating of the Parents
Having the support and involvement of parents and grandparents in the ceremony brings a special blessing to the couple and also expresses honor to the previous generations of marriage unions.
The processional music begins with the seating of the honored guests:
o Seating of the Groom’s grandmother
o Seating of the Bride’s grandmother
o Seating of the Groom’s parents
o Seating of the Bride’s mother
* Bridal Processional Begins
o Minister and Groom enter usually from stage right. If the Groomsmen are not escorting the Bridesmaids down the aisle to the altar, they also enter together with the Minister and Groom.
o Bridesmaids enter, usually down the center aisle, one at a time. If the Groomsmen are escorting the Bridesmaids, they enter together.
o Maid or Matron of Honor enters. If she is being escorted by the Best Man, they enter together.
o Flower Girl and Ring Bearer enter.
* Wedding March Begins
The Bride and her father enter. Typically the Bride’s mother will stand as a signal for all of the guests to stand. Sometimes the Minister will announce, “All rise for the Bride.
Congregation is Seated
At this time the congregation is typically asked to be seated.
Worship Song, Hymn or Solo
At this time the wedding party typically moves to the stage or platform and the Flower Girl and Ring Bearer are seated with their parents.
At this moment in the wedding ceremony the Bride and Groom face one another
*Exchanging of the Rings
*Lighting of the Unity Candle
Many times couples will incorporate Communion into the wedding ceremony, making Communion their very first act as a married couple.
*The Closing Prayer
Minister: ____, you may now kiss your Bride.
*Presentation of the Couple
Minister: It is now my privilege to introduce to you for the first time, Mr. and Mrs. ____.
The wedding party exits the platform, typically in the following order:
o Bride and Groom
o Maid or Matron of Honor and Best Man
o Bridesmaids and Groomsmen
o Flower Girl and Ring Bearer
o The Ushers return for the honored guests who are escorted out in reverse order of their entrance.
o Ushers may then dismiss the remaining guests, either all at once, or one row at a time.
• Gain a deeper understanding of your Christian wedding ceremony and make your special day even more meaningful by learning the biblical significance of today’s Christian wedding traditions.