Most folks would normally resort to question asking when they find themselves in situations they don’t understand. Their purpose the question asking is of course to see if they can get an answer that would assist them in addressing the issue facing them.
Marriage matters also operate in this same way. People just need to get instructions that would help them fix their marriages. They therefore go ahead to ask question in the hope of getting the solutions they desire. This is what I also would do if I were really desirous of learning how to save my marriage.
It is however important that I point out the need not just to ask questions but to make certain you’re asking from the right source. Your purpose for asking the questions would not be achieved if you end up asking from the wrong source. The next critical issue would then be locating the right folks.
Should I have a computer based question, I would find someone who knows computers. I would certainly address all my cooking based questions to a cook. It is then only natural that you should also address your marriage counseling questions to either a marriage counselor or a person who you can see is having a successful marriage.
It takes having a successful marriage to understand how to go about it. When you consult an experienced couple, they would most likely be able to advice you. Your talk with them can help you know what you have been doing wrong or need to begin to do. This might be ideal for you and I would tell you why I said “might.”
We are all made differently and we act differently. The individuals we are attracted to would be determined by who we are and who they are too. I may see someone and think the world of this person whilst someone else cannot stand that same person. What we are basically saying is that we are different.
There’s a chance that the things that made one marriage successful would not work in another marriage. It is only in situations where the two marriages are very alike that the likelihood of it working is high. We know that we have general principles that every marriage needs to succeed. It’s also true that the way the principles are applied would vary from marriage to marriage.
It’s this that has made talking with marriage counselors the best option. Your consultation with the marriage therapist is not about them but about you. From them you can discover how to make the principles work in your marriage.
It is then pretty clear that you need to address your marriage counseling questions to certified marriage counselors. You cannot discard the option of talking with successful couples. Talk to them if you think they can appreciate your unique case. It’s not likely that the advice you get from a man who had a stay home wife would be useful to you if you and your partner are both working folk.
Talk with a marriage therapist now and let them guide you to building a successful marriage.